Saturday, August 10, 2013

Cemetery Searches

 In Ferndale, Paul's great grandparents are buried. Paul took Marnie to show her the marker.


James Howard Willard and Georgiana Davis joined the Church in Illinois in 1913. Their daughters Naomi and Emily were little girls at that time. George Howard was born the next year. 


He was enticed to Utah by one of the missionaries who taught him. He worked for a sugar beet company for awhile and then moved up to Sugar City with his work. They had Ruth in 1922, but she died in 1924 and is buried there.

The family moved to Bellingham where he was known for his incredible gardening skill. He could plunge a 6' pole into his backyard friable soil. The photo was taken at their 50th wedding anniversary.


Georgiana passed away in 1977 and James in 1979, both in Bellingham and are interred at Green Acres Memorial Park in Ferndale, Washington.






Sunday, August 4, 2013

Tami's Funeral

 On Sunday morning, July 28, I received a call from my mother to tell me my sister Tami had passed away. I remember my knees gave out. She was only 50 years old. When I later arrived at church I couldn't tell anyone. I knew if I did I would be inconsolable. I had 2 hours of Primary singing time to lead. Paul and I flew to San Diego and drove to Temecula to meet with my parents. The funeral was to be in Julian, where Tami had been living with Bill.


Everyone in Julian knew Tami since she had lived there so long and worked for so many businesses. All three of her former spouses attended the funeral. The director couldn't believe how kind they all were. It's says a lot about the men in her life.


Tami's daughters are so young to lose their mother. We were miserable for them.


I love talking with Don and Jerri, especially because Jerri remembers things I do not. She is ten years older than me and had many more memories with Tami.


Tad is local and spent more time with Tami than any of us. Of course, he would know the name of this dog.


So many wonderful people came to pay their respects. Nana read the lyrics to "How do you solve a problem like Maria?" with her own twist. One of Tami's birth siblings came and spoke. Tad and I were surprised that a former boyfriend from high school came. He worked at Licorice Pizza and he still was in the business of vinyl. He now owns a vintage record store in Oceanside.


Here are the three of us girls at Bear Lake. We are all very different. We all come from different parents. But we do love each other and learn from each other.